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Frequently
Asked Questions
Q.
What is a visionary?
A. A visionary is someone who sees things differently
and who can see things other people can't. A visionary is imaginative,
innovative and inventive. They can take what appears to be nothing and make
something out of it.
Q. What's a paradigm and what is the
new business paradigm?
A. A
paradigm is a new way of functioning that shatters old beliefs and ways of
functioning - with no way to go back. For example, when a butterfly leaves
the cocoon it can't go back to being caterpillar. That is a paradigm shift.
The new business paradigm
is a 21st century business model for people who want to make money - while
making a difference. Thriving enterprises are being created by people who have
chosen to use business as a vehicle to transform society. Marjorie Kelly,
editor of Business Ethics Magazine said, "We haven't updated our image
of business since the days of robber barons and it's time we did so. There
is a new way to look at capitalism: not as preying upon society, but as
serving society." New Paradigm Businesses are based on success from the
inside out - and based on building businesses that are an extension of the
person. You use your business as a self-development course and design it to
provide financial stability.
Q. What's the difference between a
job, a career or profession - and a vocation of destiny, right livelihood,
or area of transformational service.
A. A
job is something you choose to do to pay your bills. A career or profession is
the specialized training you receive which enables you to live a desired
lifestyle. Lifework is an extension of who you are ( a calling) and your
purpose for being - not just something you learn how to do or be. Many people
have had enough jobs, businesses and careers and are ready for their vocation
of destiny or transformational role.
Q. What is destiny?
A. Destiny is not a goal, objective or destination. It's
all the activities in the theatre of your life. Catching up with your destiny
is kind of like playing the board game called, CLUE. The purpose of CLUE is to
solve the murder mystery of who did it, in what room, and with whom. Your
destiny is not a destination - and you really don’t want to know exactly
where your destiny will take you because that would spoil the game of your
life. Enjoy the unfolding mystery and allow yourself to enjoy the adventures
as they unfold. When you are mystified (and not at your command control post
dictating each step) it's a sign that what you are doing is perfect.
Q. What are values?
A. Values are the most powerful form of motivation
- they
are driven by your heart's desires. Your personal core values are what you
stand for ...your inner rules for how you are to be living your life. Your
personal values are why you do what you do - and they invisibly influence
every decision you make ... including your lifestyle decisions, work choices -
where
you go to school, where you work and who you work for - where you shop, where
you live, how you spend money, how you choose relationships and even how you
raise your children.
Values are your ideals,
your standards for excellence. They provide purpose and passion from deep
within - a driving force to overcome incredible obstacles in order to make
your dreams a reality. Values come from your heart or soul - and when people
come from their values they are all on common ground. Despite different
religions or spiritual paths people feel a connectedness and share common
concerns.
Q.
Why do you use enterprise instead of business or organization?
A. Enterprise is
inclusive of all types of ventures, regardless of the industry, business,
institution or organization - and it defines more of an attitude than the
specific arena in which activities are carried out. The word enterprise also
denotes a more exciting, living, adventurous way of functioning.
Q.
What is the spirit of an enterprise?
A. The spirit of an
enterprise is an invisible feeling that permeates all organizational
activities. It is the soul or spirit driving the enterprise. Spirit is an
energy - a positive attracting field for opportunities, activities, products
and people.
Q. What's
the difference between a mid-life crisis and a crisis of my spirit?
A. In the past when someone reached their
mid thirties or early forties, they often began to rethink their life. It
could often be relieved by changing jobs, relationships or residences. A
crisis of the spirit is a feeling of emptiness deep inside that won't go
away - a search for meaning or purpose.
So let me start with the difficult task of using words to
define spirit. Your spirit is an invisible immaterial quality. It's your
essence, life-force, or energy, that gives life to your physical body. It's
an activating principle and your sacred, moral and emotional nature. It is
often referred to as your Real Self, spiritual Self, soul or higher self - which
differentiates it from your ego personality self or human self.
The human spirit is the most valuable and unlimited
resource. To better understand spirit, consider a passionate spirit, a
spirited racehorse, team spirit, school spirit, a free spirit, the American
spirit, the spirit of the law - or a spirited leader such as Martin Luther
King Jr. or Ghandi - or the power of a courageous spirit. Your true spirit
is childlike, innocent, intuitive, playful, sensual and joyful.
Q. What
process can I expect to go through?
A. First you need to understand you are
never in the situation you're in ... for the reasons you think. When
your old ways of doing things are not working anymore - and no new clear
options have revealed themselves, it can be a frustrating, unnerving time.
Your intellectual reasons for being in a certain crisis may make sense in your
mind, but rarely reflect what your spirit is trying to get you to understand.
A spiritual crisis requires totally different rationales.
Activating your spirit usually takes a 'crash course' of one form
or another. This is not necessary, but it is very normal. Some people have had
the luxury of activating their spirit gradually - others find themselves in a
severe crisis. Your ego personality self seldom will take a secondary role
without a severe crisis. Before you jump into something, take your time and
look for options outside of conventional boxes. Try to understand yourself and
your circumstances from a broader point of view.
Q. How would
I know if am in a spiritual crisis?
A. To
determine if you are in a spiritual crisis, stop and ask yourself if you are
experiencing intense financial, work, relationships, or physical challenges - or
even all of the previous challenges simultaneously. This is a good sign that
your spirit wants your attention. I find that your spirit will tolerate your
avoidance of initial prompting for about two years. Then it will get it's
way by intensifying your pain and frustration to highly uncomfortable levels.
Most people listen when the pain intensifies enough. Then they start earnestly
searching for answers.
Q.
What's the
difference between religion and spirituality?
A. Spiritual means many things: living
life fully and living life from the inside out, being clear about your values
and making conscious life choices that are aligned to your values, creating
sacredness in all areas of your life, being present in each moment, being
creative and expressive, appreciating nature and natural beauty, enjoying a
sense of mystery ... and it means having an awareness of one's self
within a larger universal context and honoring godliness in each of us. The
word 'spirit' comes from the Latin "spiritual" which means
breath, courage, the soul, life; and from
"Spirare" which is to breathe. Spirituality is an expression and an
attitude - not something that is obtained. Its living harmoniously - allowing
a loving outward flow from your inner resources. Religion differs from
spirituality because there are no organizations to belong to or philosophies
to subscribe to. Universal spirituality has always encouraged listening to an
inner voice, regardless of what name you personally give it.
Q.
What major factors deplete my spirit or make spirits weary?
A. These are the major factors that deplete your spirit:
Meaningless work
Competing
Unfulfilling relationships
Fitting in
Boring activities
Violating your values
Routine
Fear
Excessive debt
Regret
Constant thinking
Conformity
Ignorance
Chasing the almighty dollar
Endless activities
Confusion
Shame
Guilt
Frustration
Greed
Indecision
Stress
Q. What major factors activate spirit ?
A. These are the major factors that invigorate your spirit:
Meaningful work
Fulfilling relationships
Simplicity
Simple things
Adventure
Challenging experiences
Integrity
Inner harmony
Joy
Passion
Fun
Creativity
Spontaneity
Being in nature
Play
Ethical commitment
Fiscal/financial balance
Purpose
Personal identity
Optimism
Living your values
Vision
Trust
Self-respect
Q. What
is integrity?
A. Most people
believe that integrity is being honest and doing the right things. This is
only a small part of what integrity is. Integrity is the result of
having your thoughts, words and actions be congruent. What you say and how you
live must be one. Personal integrity is one of the most important things you
have. Every time you fail to do what you know is right, you lessen your
ability to live a fulfilled life. Each time you compromise in a situation to
be "agreeable" you have given up some of your freedom.
Here's what integrity is in practical terms. Integrity is
standing up for what you believe in, being true to yourself, openly
communicating how you feel, being frank, and having ethical commitment. It
also means living a personal and professional life that is integrated, not
sugar coating things, or saying socially/politically correct things, doing
fulfilling work, having rewarding relationships and marriages - taking your
heart and soul to work with you, living your life the way you choose, walking
your talk and living your vision and purpose.
Remember, somewhere there is a giant score card of how you
live. You are responsible for what you say, do and think. If you do good, good
will come to you - if you do harm, you will experience harm. Even if no one
but you knows, there is a consequence for every action. For every
action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Know that what goes around - comes
around. Nobody, regardless of their power or money will escape the
consequences of their actions. Many people make jokes about saying the
socially or politically correct thing. But it isn't funny. Your self worth
is the price you pay for failing to uphold your own standards of excellence
and living your truth. Personal integrity is maintained when you don't
compromise your personal integrity for financial or social reasons.
Think about this list. How many of the previous ways to live with integrity
can you honestly say you do as a way of life?
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